Nurses at UT Medical Center make a bride鈥檚 dream come true

University of Tennessee Medical Center. Front, from left: Samantha  Barry, Lynn Barry and Phillip Bastelica; Rear: University of Tennessee Medical Center nurses

How long does it take to plan a wedding? For some nurses at the , it took four hours.

Samantha Barry and Phillip Bastelica were supposed to get married in August 2025. But Barry鈥檚 mother, Lynn, had been battling a terminal illness for some time and in December 2024 was released from the progressive care unit to hospice care. Since it was unlikely she would make it to the planned wedding, the wedding came to her.

Barry had her dress, so that was taken care of. Bastelica ran to Walmart to buy a suit. At the hospital, a team of nurses swung into action.

鈥淚 called dietary and was like, 鈥榟ey, we need a cake,鈥欌 Shailee Dowdy, the team leader nurse on the progressive care unit, . Nurses headed to the gift shop, called the marketing team so they could take photos and grabbed a hospital chaplain. 鈥淗ere Comes the Bride鈥 played on a nurse鈥檚 phone when Barry鈥檚 father walked her down the aisle, while a nurse made sure to FaceTime in Bastelica鈥檚 family.

And Lynn? She was in the front row of the Absher Chapel for her daughter鈥檚 wedding day on Dec. 23.

鈥淚t鈥檚 the patient, but it鈥檚 also the family,鈥 said nurse manager Kayla Daugherty. 鈥淲hen you go to nursing school, you don鈥檛 think you鈥檒l plan a wedding, but that was really important for the patient and family that day.鈥

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